Christian couple, Marriage, health, work and Life in general

Hi guys. Greetings in Jesus name. How is everyone doing in this Pandemic Era? I pray that God keeps us safe and our loved one. So far this lock down. We have gotten to know sides of each other that was swept under the carpet. I have also got to know that there are certain areas of ones life that is brought out when certain things happen. So I can confidently say I dont know my spouse that much neither do I know myself as i think i do. A typical example is this. I have a live in nanny that stays with me. So before the pandemic broke out she went back home because she lost her sister. And eventual got trapped at home because of the lock down. She has been away for over 10 weeks. Now the big issue is now the kitchen cleaning, house chores, and cooking, and looking after our child who is a huge hand full 24 hours 7. I was happy that my big daughter (live-in) was away because I could now finally get to clean my house and move stuff around and get to be in her shoes. I have an OCD f...

Happy new year people. Greetings in the name of our Lordship the keeper and giver of life. So my people you guys need to hear this o. This december period yeah.... Pancakes and I engaged everyday until my next period. I wonder how we got to do that. Like every single day without a skip. Some days we had it breakfast and dinner or breakfast and lunch. My mother-inlaw came to visit and it made us make out at odd places fast, some slow,some testing each other. But as it goes nothing stays hidden under the sun. You know that pining when you are pinned and you are being taken in one position, you just want to scream out loud and forget everyone. Yes we got there severely and he would breath on my neck and close my mouth while I scream in my throat. Then the next morning we see my mother in law smiling. Oh about nothing being hidden under the sun. Come and listen to this gist while it's hot..... so we wanted a quickie in the kitchen while I bent over and held onto the door. My dea...

Greetings family. Greetings in the name that is above every other name. So guys something precious happened withing this week. I got payment from work for salaries owed. And in the bulk it came I decided that I would carry the responsibilities of the house for once fully. My dear after I had paid out my tithe , cable bill, and then the main stuff..... House shopping. I almost fainted. That my huge payout did not seem huge after all. I then knew at that point taking care of the house bill was now an impossible mission. I could just see my bank account balance dropping. Then it struck me. We as women sit down and make demand from the boo or say he should shoulder our responsibilities. Wow men I give you kudus. I have not had any money for myself to do anything. It just made me think that all these years my boo makes list and carries responsibilities. its not easy and it takes a good man. Now I feel robbed. Like after all this hard work you mean I cannot indulge? Spoil myself a litt...

My daughter will be 4 years old towards the end of the year. She's the only child we have, and we adore her so much. When I think of giving her the best that I can afford, I feel like with my present state of income I can accommodate just one baby. Also when I think of school tuition cost, extra curricular activities, feeding, clothing, holiday cost for both of us and our daughter, its huge....Then talk more of having another baby. The question on everyone lips is oh when are you having another. If I say oh we looking that children are expensive. The answer that follows is...... "So you here talking, how many of you did your mom have, did she not raise you up right, are you not happy you have other siblings to play with and all, please stop being selfish and give the girl a sibling". So the now a days my new and IMPROVED answer is that "we are trusting God". That kills the long talks and lectures. As my Daughter grows up, she has a special love for other ...

Happy new year people. I pray this year brings us all a more fertile ground, love, peace and a better productive life. While we at it, remember to save more, put plans to work and trust God more. I will update you all soon on my progress with my partnership business.

The worlds greatest pretenders are women. We can make believe. I have come to experience that women need each other. Find one you can trust and confined in them. But in it all , don't dish out everything because no matter how much you trust the person you sit back and say oh I shouldn't have said this or that. I have come to understand that humans change. We are not static. So we change with time, events, and happenings around us. Most importantly for married women, we need to always be on our A game. We need to have friends, close ones. As a married woman, its not all your friends you leave when you become hooked. Yes! Change in your status, may change your gist,between your single friends, and married friends. BUT keep your friends close to you, keep up with communications,with them, whang outs and what not. I know for myself that there are times when I get bored and I want friends to call or go to, and I find out i am alone. The ease I have is that I can go to work, take...