World's Best Pretenders

The worlds greatest pretenders are women. We can make believe. I have come to experience that women need each other. Find one you can trust and confined in them. But in it all , don't dish out everything because no matter how much you trust the person you sit back and say oh I shouldn't have said this or that. I have come to understand that humans change. We are not static. So we change with time, events, and happenings around us. Most importantly for married women, we need to always be on our A game. We need to have friends, close ones. As a married woman, its not all your friends you leave when you become hooked. Yes! Change in your status, may change your gist,between your single friends, and married friends. BUT keep your friends close to you, keep up with communications,with them, whang outs and what not. I know for myself that there are times when I get bored and I want friends to call or go to, and I find out i am alone. The ease I have is that I can go to work, take a walk around my office and bury myself in work. Or give ears to office gossips. It is very important that a woman works or has a side business. I know as a mom we have our hands full. But I have come to know that managing side hustle with a baby or children helps a lot. Its an escape for housewives, and extra cash for the rainy days. So back to women being big pretenders. OK so for me that everyone know that I am a Christian, and know how I encourage everyone, and lift spirits in accordance to my faith. Seeing I and my boo all loved up and good together. Everyone things and believes we the worlds perfect ones. But there were other underground matters that I wanted to talk about. But how do I come out to say these things? Everyone looks at us as the best Christian couple. But the truth is that even we,have rocky times. Times I just want to scream just like the neighbours or the movies and let the house go rocky. But I swallow up because ...... I am a pretender too. I have now come to understand that it is normal. We slip but we get up. There is no point pretending because we die fast, because of the build up. However when you talk in the gathering of women, ask God for wisdom to filter and take the good stuff that can help you at your point of need. What's your story?

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