A mans world

Greetings family. Greetings in the name that is above every other name. So guys something precious happened withing this week. I got payment from work for salaries owed. And in the bulk it came I decided that I would carry the responsibilities of the house for once fully. My dear after I had paid out my tithe , cable bill, and then the main stuff..... House shopping. I almost fainted. That my huge payout did not seem huge after all. I then knew at that point taking care of the house bill was now an impossible mission. I could just see my bank account balance dropping. Then it struck me. We as women sit down and make demand from the boo or say he should shoulder our responsibilities. Wow men I give you kudus. I have not had any money for myself to do anything. It just made me think that all these years my boo makes list and carries responsibilities. its not easy and it takes a good man. Now I feel robbed. Like after all this hard work you mean I cannot indulge? Spoil myself a little bit? Baba wahala kena( big problem) So girls I think we need to step up once and carry this bill fully not half of my salary is used for this in the house. When I sit down and make an extensive list and keep updating it on my note pad, and get upset that this things are not bought. When I get to also put some of my little earnings towards house shopping. Now that I have put all or well almost all my salary into this months. house shopping/expenses/upkeep, As in the whole shebang. My dear, I respect men who care for their family. It's like shearing their life and their income that they work for every month just for their family. My Pancakes has been using this BlackBerry phone I got him 5 years ago. I keep telling him to change the phone but now I realise that changing the phone is a grate deal. Although he finally bought one some 3 months ago. I also had expenses to run personally, like getting my hair done in one of the best salons, changing my phone, getting a new washing machine, and bla bla bla. I now see I can't indulge because I need to sort my family needs...... So that's the feeling and that saying family first. I think this can be likened to moms who stay their life to care for kids, who take out of their savings to give their kids the best in our own view.... God bless our boys and men for us in Jesus name. Amen God bless the women that carry their families months after months, year after year and still make the man feel important and don't disrespect him. Moral of this story........ Well its personal to each of us..... Am outta here

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