Christian couple, Marriage, health, work and Life in general

Greetings family. Greetings in the name that is above every other name. So guys something precious happened withing this week. I got payment from work for salaries owed. And in the bulk it came I decided that I would carry the responsibilities of the house for once fully. My dear after I had paid out my tithe , cable bill, and then the main stuff..... House shopping. I almost fainted. That my huge payout did not seem huge after all. I then knew at that point taking care of the house bill was now an impossible mission. I could just see my bank account balance dropping. Then it struck me. We as women sit down and make demand from the boo or say he should shoulder our responsibilities. Wow men I give you kudus. I have not had any money for myself to do anything. It just made me think that all these years my boo makes list and carries responsibilities. its not easy and it takes a good man. Now I feel robbed. Like after all this hard work you mean I cannot indulge? Spoil myself a litt...

My daughter will be 4 years old towards the end of the year. She's the only child we have, and we adore her so much. When I think of giving her the best that I can afford, I feel like with my present state of income I can accommodate just one baby. Also when I think of school tuition cost, extra curricular activities, feeding, clothing, holiday cost for both of us and our daughter, its huge....Then talk more of having another baby. The question on everyone lips is oh when are you having another. If I say oh we looking that children are expensive. The answer that follows is...... "So you here talking, how many of you did your mom have, did she not raise you up right, are you not happy you have other siblings to play with and all, please stop being selfish and give the girl a sibling". So the now a days my new and IMPROVED answer is that "we are trusting God". That kills the long talks and lectures. As my Daughter grows up, she has a special love for other ...

Happy new year people. I pray this year brings us all a more fertile ground, love, peace and a better productive life. While we at it, remember to save more, put plans to work and trust God more. I will update you all soon on my progress with my partnership business.