1 child or two children?
My daughter will be 4 years old towards the end of the year. She's the only child we have, and we adore her so much. When I think of giving her the best that I can afford, I feel like with my present state of income I can accommodate just one baby. Also when I think of school tuition cost, extra curricular activities, feeding, clothing, holiday cost for both of us and our daughter, its huge....Then talk more of having another baby. The question on everyone lips is oh when are you having another. If I say oh we looking that children are expensive. The answer that follows is...... "So you here talking, how many of you did your mom have, did she not raise you up right, are you not happy you have other siblings to play with and all, please stop being selfish and give the girl a sibling". So the now a days my new and IMPROVED answer is that "we are trusting God". That kills the long talks and lectures. As my Daughter grows up, she has a special love for other ...