Singles and Married

Hello precious ones, greetings in the name that is above every other name. Today I be chatting about praying for your husband's for both single and married ones. When I and Pancakes started out, we prayed a lot for each other and our future. If we eventually did get married. We prayed for our kids and our career too. At that time it seemed crazy but I have come to understand that prayer prayed ahead in the future does a lot. As a married hottie( yeah I know am hot) many people keep wondering if my husband is my boyfriend or if we truely are married because of the positive love vibes we send. I remember my brother in law saying my house has this aura of love in it and also of peace. My friends that stay in our spear room always confirm to me that there is peace and love upon my home. Those who come always had a good sleep, rest and feel relaxed. I tell them that it goes back to the foundation. My uncle always says pray your husband never cheats on you. And here I am thinking my husband is a sprit filled, and belives in the word of God. However the Bible says let he who think he stands firm be cautious , so he does not fall. And the truth is this, I cannot say my husband would not cheat on me, rather I pray against it. I would not say we cannot get divorced. Because everyday u learn new this about one another. Humans are not stanganant we evolve with change. So as a single lady I prayed a lot for my boyfriend/fiancee and fasted and gave seed offrings on behalf of our relationship. God is not only interested in what you eat, drink or our going out and coming in. He is also interested in your relationship. I tell most women the burden to pray is mostly on us. Be a proverbs 31 wife. I remember when we were engaged, I prayed more and fasted. I would do crazy things like wear his shirts and shoes and pray for him wearing them. Crazy yeah? I sit in the driver seat of his car and pray he will not drive to places that is not approved by the Lord, I sit on the passenger seat and pray that he does not pick up women, when we got married I will stand at the entrance to our home and pray peace and happiness and love and joy. I stand there and pray that he will always come home to me and the kids, in my absence or presence he will not bring any woman for unwholesome act. I pray that our home will be a bed of roses and peace shelter where he will always run to and not run away from. I lay on our bed and pray saying that i will be the only woman who lays on the bed and enjoys my husband. Its funny and also sounds crazy but these prayers I post them into the future. And ask God to block all that whenever they crop up. I encourage you single ladies to pray for your husband to be, because when u get married and babies come immediately, its harder because you have not had time for yourselves. trust me babies are testers. They can put a huge strain on the marriage. Imagine taking care of another human being. You MAY not have the time to pray, or do the ground work as a newly wed. You be to tired, or too hungry, or too busy baby shopping. Therefore Let your keens be sore before you come into the home as man and wife. Pray as much as you can, especially when you see things in other marriages you would not like to experience you pray against it for yourself whether you are married or not. I remember praying for whoever my hasband is, he will not a wife beater. This is one aspect I watch in movies or hear stories about that I never wanted for any woman. I also prayed he would not be a drunk and would always encourage and be my back bone. Weirdest one is that I started when we were married to pray for our sex life. I prayed more spice and every moment of enjoyment(closing my eyes and rubbing my belle. Lol) and to be honest its so pleasurable and relieving. It keeps getting renewed and better. I also pray about his cooked meals. Every time I want to cook I pray that I make delicious meals that he will enjoy. I keep asking God to direct me cook it in a way he like, I also ask God for healthy delicious options too. (This I honestly do everyday. Because Pancakes always says the sight of the food has to be appealing before he taste it. I also several him royal. In a tray and put decoration( the days I remember or want to go a step further for him.lol) If all is well with your husband all shall be well with you. Says my friend's (Chika) brother in law.I pray also and ask that I will enjoy the fruit of his labour and he will enjoy mine. Not him taking it out to other women in place of me. I pray that we be attractive to each other and love and cherish us. He comes out looking cute and I am admiring my man and like ...... Thank god I got him first. (Beautiful for my eyes to behold) I encourage the single ladies, do the ground work, pray for your husband's. Pray for your in laws . I remember before we got married,, the Holy Spirit has ministered to my heart that we pray and fast before the wedding.it was a peaceful weeding and we as the couple never fought or disagreed within ourselves. When you plan as two individuals, u tend to have different views with parents and friends imflunecing and its easy to have your first major disagreement during that period. But all this was avoided and Its all the power of prayer. I am not the best out there however , The Lord has blessed my spirit to be sensitive to his voice. Thank you for reading and I pray you become a woman with a difference. Shalom

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